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| Introduction |
Dear
friend, let me tell you something
before you read any further. You having landed
on this page probably mean that either you
are going through a break up or is preparing
for one. You may be in a condition of great
emotional trauma or a slight emotional itching
depending on how strong your feelings were
for your love (ex). Well, you might have already
read several websites’ articles on how
to recover from a break up and might have
failed miserably. (Trust me, I once did the
same). |
This is not a divorce
recovery guide for adults, but simply a
break up recovery / survival guide meant
for the youngs– teens in particular.
If you are an adult facing a marriage trauma,
please don’t rely on online articles.
Kindly seek the help of a good marriage
counselor.
If you are a victim
of a love break up (the one who got dumped),
the forthcoming paragraphs are for you.
If you are the one who wants to quit the
relationship, please
click here>>
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| Why?
Why? Why? |
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This
is the one troubling question you will
stumble across, if you are the one who
got dumped. You essentially had to gulp
down the very hard decision your ex
took and the whole break up situtation
seems indigestible for you. That’s
probably why the question pops up again
and again. Before we ponder deep into
the reasons why your relationship has
failed, we need to find out what this
relationship meant to your ex. There
can be broadly two cases.
Your ex girlfriend/boyfriend
loved you truly & sincerely
Your ex girlfriend/boyfriend was nothing
but a jerk
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In
order to find out in which category your ex
girlfriend / boyfriend falls, all you need
to do is recollect the route through which
your relationship has come and the mode of
your break up. |
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How
to find whether your girlfriend / boyfriend
genuinely loved you: |
Has
he/she given you warnings and red
flags along the way, that you simply
ignored? Did he/she present the whole
breakup thing personally (to you)
in a very genuine manner? Did he/she
give you the time to understand what
he/she was saying and had shown patience
to listen to what you say? Did your
ex tell YOU the exact reasons why
he/she wants a break up looking directly
into your eyes? Did he/she ask the
question ‘is it not better
that we breakup bcos of so and so
reasons’ instead of
‘I just want to quit. Its over’?
Was he/she concerned about how you
would face the situation or just said
‘You will handle it. You’ll
be fine’ and scooted?
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If
the answer to all/most of the above questions
was a YES, your lover falls
in the first category. Count yourself lucky
and
skip over to here >> |
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| How
to find if your girlfriend / boyfriend desperately
wanted to quit |
Did
he/she attempt for one or more breakups
previously itself, but simply failed?
Did he/she act like they virtually got
a new face mask and started being a
different self? Did he/she avoid your
questions totally or gave very vague
explanations and reasons for the break
up? Did he/she ever care about how you
would recover & move on with your
life? Did he/she keep on hurting you
after the break up for his/her sadistic
pleasures? Does he/she like harassing
you in public?
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If
the answer to most of the above questions
was a YES, then count your
love simply as one among the crowd. (Just
type break up in yahoo answers
and you will see the real crowd). Still count
yourself lucky enough for having learned a
huge lesson and skip
over to here >> |
| How
to get him/her out of your head after
you got ditched: |
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This
is quite a tough process, if your
love was deep-rooted and strong.
On the other hand it might be
a cakewalk if your love meant
nothing but a time-pass to you.
If your case is the former one,
there are some really useful tips
that can help you a great deal
to recover. Read
More >> |
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| Things
you should do after the breakup: |
You
having managed to move on with
your life somehow doesn’t
mean that you recovered successfully
from the break up. You might end
up spending several years hopelessly
thinking about your ex and cursing
your mistakes. Our target should
be the shortest time-span of pain
and being able to move on to a
happier life than ever before.
Following a few things in your
life can greatly help you in that.
Read More >> |
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| If
you are the one who needs to quit / break
up: |
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If
you are the one who needs a break
up, you are going to cause emotional
pain to the one whom you loved
dearly. But proper thinking before
jumping into decisions and taking
steps through planning can alleviate
the break up pain by a great margin.
Discover effective ways to initiate
a break up, causing minimum pain
to your partner and ways to stick
on to your decision here.
Read More >> |
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Thanks a lot for reading
! Even though, this article
centers mostly on how to deal with
a break up, I hope that it might also
have helped you to gain greater insight
into your existing relationship and
improving it. If this break up advice
has helped you in some way to build
a better relationship or in alleviating
your pain during a break up, this
article has fulfilled its purpose.
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Kindly
do send
your feedbacks to me –
Criticisms, suggestions, questions,
personal experiences all are
welcome. If I missed some valuable points,
or some portion needs further explanation,
kindly let me know. Thanks once again
for spending your valuable time and
I hope that it has been beneficial for
you. |
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