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Break up Advice - How to recover from a break up? (comprehensive break up survival & recovery guide)
Author - Saju Asokan
Last Updated: Aug 02 2008
 
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Keep your ex girlfriend / boyfriend out of your discussions:

Never use your time with friends to discuss how sweet your love was or the like. Since your ventilation phase is over, get the whole love-matter out of your thoughts and discussions. And tell your close friends to never remind you of your ex. If your friends are genuine, they can help you a great deal in getting out of the whole break up mess.

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Perform a makeover:

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You might have changed your attitudes and your mental makeup during the whole break up process. Why don’t you experiment a bit with your looks? First thing I would recommend is workout. Get yourself a good build and shape. Try a different hairstyle or hair colour. Do what ever you feel like. If you are a simple-dressing guy like I used to be, get the whole bull-shit concept out of your mind. You can say something as bad only after trying it. So experiment. Your makeover can boost your confidence, and ofcourse your appeal.

Never get into NEW addictions:

If love was an addiction for you, please don’t rely on another addiction to get over with the one you are currently having. Don’t waste one bit of your health lamenting about your ex because of this break up. It can never give solutions to your problems or permanent relief from your pain.

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Don’t generalize the gender:
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Don’t let this single instance turn the concept of the opposite gender in your mind upside down. Your ex having turned out to be a jerk doesn’t mean that everyone out there in that sex is a jerk. Just think about how many jerks you know among your own pals. Life gives you a mixture of roses and thorns. You having come across a few thorns doesn’t mean that it is all that life has to offer. Roses are still beautiful, fragrant and romantic, but rare. All you need to do is search for them.

Refrain from taking revenge:

Taking revenge on your ex for having ditched you might give you instant gratification, but in the long run it will only bring you guilt and emotional baggage. If you learn to forgive for the pain caused to you, you are proving your worth and character to yourself. There can be a hundred things in your hands that you can use against your ex to ruin his/her future. If you try to inflict the same pain that your ex has caused to you, what is the point in saying that you loved him/her? Learn to forgive and forget. Let them live the way they want to. Just set them free.

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Trust in God and move forward:
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I was almost an atheist before my break up. Actually I was confused about whether god existed or not. I would call my break up time as the best time in my life because it was the time that brought me back to my god. Are you in great pain and torture? You can find god in no better time if you can’t find HIM now. Search for HIM. HE is definitely out there knocking at your door. Simply open that door – the door to your heart.

I was a guy who trusted and loved my ex more than anything in this world – even more than my parents. If you are one of those idiots like me, here is your chance to correct yourself. My lover used to ask me ‘njanille?’ (in malayalam - a south indian language) – which means “Am I not there for you?” when ever I was in some pain or trouble. After the breakup, my friends started to make fun of me changing it to “Njanillleeee!!!!!” – meaning “I’m not there at all”. During our three years relationship, she made me truly believe that she’ll be with me till the end of the grave. It used to give me lot of joy at that time. But now when I look back, all I have is a smile on my face.

Spend time praying to god than lamenting on your loss. Let HIM guide you, let HIM love you. Your ex might have been like honey for you. But what lies beneath the outer honey is something that only the creator knows. You will receive all the answers you want, only from the one who weigh the hearts. He will bring people and situations that can give you the answers you need. Depend truly on the omnipotent. Give no other, any place even near to Him.

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For those, who are reading this simply out of curiosity and haven't yet been dumped, but is in love, kindly keep in mind a 1% chance that your lover would ditch you at some point of time. Think about what all you can do in life if your love breaks one fine morning. (Yeah sometimes a single night can turn things upside down) Every unfortunate (may be fortunate in the long run) guy/gal out there who got ditched now, believed once that their lover would never leave. So keeping this 1% possibility in the back of your mind can help you from feeling like a total fool in case your lover walks away from you one fine morning, happily searching for greener pastures.

 
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