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to get him/her out of your head after
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This
is quite a tough process, if your love
is deep-rooted and strong. On the other
hand it might be a cakewalk if your
love means nothing but a time-pass for
you. If your case is the former one,
these are some really useful tips that
can help you a great deal to recover:
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Stop all forms of communication after the break
up: |
If your lover was true and sincere,
this step should be taken after
your attempts to put things back
again. After correcting your mistakes
or asking your partner to correct
his/her’s, give your partner
a time span. I recommend you not
to make it too long. The longer
you hope and expect, the higher
your sufferings will be. Once all
the attempts that you can feasibly
do has been done, simply stop -
No phone calls, no emails, no birthday
cards, nothing.
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Never
try to chase her/him. Never force people back
into your life. You wouldn’t want them
to point their fingers at you and ask ‘why
did you force me back into this hell?’
some time in the future. Would you? Let them
go if they want to. As I already said, weaker
pillars might fall apart. They are in plenty
in this world. You are not at all the loser.
Stronger pillars may be rare. But they are
definitely on the way to you. Open up your
heart for them. |
Stop waiting infinitely:
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You can give the person some time
to come back. But this should never
happen to ruin your life or your mental
and physical well being. Infinite
waiting will! Every moment you expect
the person back, he/she might be out
there enjoying their lives with someone
new. They may be busy planning for
their great accomplishments in life.
Your ex might have already got over
with you and moved forward in their
life, seeking new joys and horizons.
Set a time limit and let go.
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One
advice for guys: Experienced
hands say that women and buses are alike.
If you missed one, another is definitely on
the way. Never desperately run after the one
you just missed, however valuable it seems.
If they simply walked away erasing all the
memories they had about you, it means they
can do it at any point in their lives. You
might have been a small piece in their whole
jigsaw puzzle like life. You want to spend
a life time with such a kind of person? You
want your life to be a puzzle? If he/she could
forget you, it is mandatory that you should
do the same |
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Keep his/her belongings away: |
There
may be tons of gifts and letters that
he/she might have given you. If you
are highly inclined to keep looking
back at them now, you are not likely
going to forget any memories. If that
is the case, simply put them on fire.
But if you are quite strong, I would
advice you to keep all those belongings
with you. But never go back to them
until some time pass by. After a while,
have a look at those rubbles of your
temple of love. All these thoughts that
hurt you now are going to be strange
but sweet memories when you move forward
in your life.
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Several times have I read through my whole
collection of love letters my ex wrote for
me and smiled thinking how stupid I was
once for having believed all those intoxicating
sentences. I assure you – it doesn’t
hurt. It simply gives a different sort of
feeling. May be a feeling of pride for having
learned so much and come so far.
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Break up Recovery / Survival advices & guide |
